Are we finding love or just finding the ick? 👀

In this episode of First Rounds On Me (a First Round’s On Me production), we dive into the dating myths and modern theories that are shaking up today’s relationships. From emotional “exit ramps” to the rise of the “wife drought,” we ask the hard questions:

• Why do people chase the ick instead of leaning into connection?

• Are women’s expanding options redefining what partnership means?

• Is being “too available” actually a red flag—or just a sign of maturity?

We share real stories, challenge old gender roles, and unpack why healthy love sometimes feels so uncomfortable in a world obsessed with playing games.

💬 Drop your biggest “ick” in the comments—we might feature it in a future episode!
👉 If you’ve ever blocked someone for saying “yummy,” panicked at a quick text back, or questioned what “wife material” really means in 2025, this one’s for you.
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Chapters

00:00 – Intro & setting the stage
00:25 – The “ick” and emotional exit ramps
02:20 – Digital vs. physical icks in dating
04:00 – Why we look for reasons to check out
05:20 – Personal stories of unexpected icks
06:20 – Can an ick turn into something endearing?
07:20 – The “green flag ick” (when healthy love feels weird)
08:40 – Too available or just emotionally mature?
11:45 – Playing games vs. genuine connection
12:45 – The “wife drought” theory explained
14:20 – Are men scared that women have more options?
15:25 – Shifting gender roles & rising standards
17:00 – The dating age gap: challenges for men & women
21:15 – Redefining partnership in modern relationships
22:40 – Why men must rise emotionally as women rise financially
23:35 – Wrap-up & next episode teaser

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